The Legitimacy of Massage Therapy Establishments
- Denise Sosnowski
- Mar 14, 2024
- 4 min read
Updated: May 12
The Hidden Harm of Illegal Massage Parlors: A Licensed Therapist's Perspective
For the past 18 years, I’ve had the honor of working as a Licensed Massage Therapist and small business owner. Massage therapy is a deeply rewarding and highly skilled profession rooted in science, anatomy, and human compassion. But sadly, it's also an industry plagued by a serious and persistent problem: the existence of illegal “massage parlors” that offer sexual services under the false guise of therapeutic massage.
These establishments have caused real harm—not just to the integrity of our profession, but to the safety of clients and the well-being of legitimate, licensed Massage Therapists.
The Damage Done
The existence of these illicit operations has affected me deeply, both personally and professionally. Like many of my colleagues, I’ve been on the receiving end of inappropriate jokes, disrespectful questions, and shameful assumptions after telling someone what I do for a living. Some people still equate massage therapy with sex work—and it’s not hard to understand why when illegal parlors continue to advertise in shady ways and blur the lines of professionalism.
These establishments often:
Operate without licensed staff
Disregard sanitation and client safety
Exploit vulnerable women, many of whom are trafficked
Provide poor-quality, even harmful, bodywork
Mislead the public into thinking all massage is the same
This has led to clients being genuinely surprised when we disinfect thoroughly or change linens between every client. That shouldn't be shocking—it should be the minimum standard. But it reflects just how skewed public expectations have become due to these illegal businesses.
The Human Toll
For professional Massage Therapists, the constant barrage of sexual harassment—often from people emboldened by their experiences at illegal parlors—can be emotionally draining and even traumatic. We train for years, invest in continuing education, maintain strict boundaries, and devote ourselves to helping people feel better. Yet we are frequently treated as if our work is transactional or erotic, simply because of these bad actors.
This harassment leads to burnout, anxiety, and even fear in some therapists. It also discourages new talent from entering the field.
The Broader Risk
Illegal parlors are not only a threat to our profession—they are a threat to public health and safety. The risks include:
Untrained staff causing injury due to lack of anatomical knowledge
The spread of infectious diseases from poor hygiene practices
The perpetuation of human trafficking and sexual exploitation
If you’ve ever wondered why a massage at a shady location is so cheap, it’s because you’re not paying for a trained professional. You’re funding a system of exploitation.
What You Can Do: Protect Yourself and Support Ethical Practice
It is critical for consumers to be educated and aware. Here's how you can help:
1. Only see Licensed Massage Therapists.
In Alabama, you can verify a therapist’s license here:👉 Alabama Massage Therapy Board License Search
2. Look for red flags:
Unusually low prices
Open late hours (past 9pm)
Use of terms like “combo massage” or “body rub”
Sexualized photos in ads
No clear display of individual licenses for each therapist
Staff who seem scared, exhausted, or pressured
Dirty facilities or reused linens
Pushy demands for tips or cash
The presence of a male “supervisor” watching over staff
⚠️ Note: While some illicit operations are staffed predominantly by Asian women, this is not an indictment of Asian-owned or operated businesses. Many highly professional and ethical massage therapists are of Asian descent. The issue lies not in ethnicity, but in operations that exploit, abuse, and misrepresent the profession.See verified complaints and disciplinary actions here
3. Read online reviews carefully.
Legitimate massage clinics will have detailed reviews from people praising the professionalism, results, and cleanliness of the experience—not vague or suspicious praise.
4. Choose businesses aligned with the Respect Massage movement.
Respect Massage is an initiative promoting zero-tolerance policies for sexual misconduct in massage. Members uphold the highest ethical standards and will end any session immediately if faced with inappropriate behavior.Learn more: https://respectmassage.com
Why This Matters
When consumers unknowingly support illicit operations, it perpetuates harm. Many people’s first massage experience happens in one of these establishments, where they may leave feeling violated, hurt, or confused. That experience could deter them from ever trying real, healing massage again.
Massage therapy, when done by trained and ethical professionals, is powerful. It reduces pain, relieves stress, improves mobility, supports trauma recovery, and enhances overall well-being. It deserves respect—and so do the professionals who dedicate their lives to it.
In Closing
Thank you for taking the time to read this. By choosing to support ethical, licensed Massage Therapists, you’re not just protecting your own health—you’re helping clean up an industry that desperately needs your support.
Be informed. Be selective. And above all, help spread awareness. Together, we can uphold the integrity of therapeutic massage and create a safer, more respectful environment for everyone involved.
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Stay well,
Denise Sosnowski, Owner and Licensed Massage Therapist AL#4927
If you are in need of help or know someone who is in danger, there are resources available:
National Sexual Assault Hotline: 800-656-HOPE
Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network (RAINN): www.rainn.org
National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC): www.nsvrc.org
The “Me Too” Movement: www.metoomvmt.org
If you believe you may have information about a trafficking situation:
Call the National Human Trafficking Hotline toll-free hotline at 1-888-373-7888: Anti-Trafficking Hotline Advocates are available 24/7 to take reports of potential human trafficking.
Text the National Human Trafficking Hotline at 233733. Message and data rates may apply.
Chat the National Human Trafficking Hotline via humantraffickinghotline.org/chat.
